As a long-time dog trainer and behavioral consultant, I enjoy teaching dogs and their human moms and dads!
It’s my job to clearly identify the current struggles and dynamics in the home, understand their root cause(s), customize a training plan, and help all family members implement the training plan and reach their training objectives.
While no two families or situations are alike, they all have one thing in common: a need for help…yesterday.
When I first arrive at the client’s home, I'm often greeted with frustration. Many of my clients are at their wit’s end. You can hear it in their voices, and see it in their weary faces.
They've tried everything to resolve the issue, and nothing has helped.
Whether the problem is door darting, excitable greetings, excessive barking, digging, fighting between pets in the home, problems between the dogs and kids, counter surfing or any other number of challenging and difficult behaviors, I’ve seen it all!
Some people are dealing with multiple problems, and really need a “quick fix.” Dog-human dynamics can be tricky. Unresolved concerns often lead to stress among family members, so the more quickly the problems are resolved, the more quickly peace can be restored in the home.
While I definitely empathize and understand the client’s feelings, the reality is that it’s not always possible to resolve difficult challenges in a few hours or days.
I gently explain to doggy parents that this isn't a 30-minute T.V. show, where the dog is magically transformed by the end of the episode. We can't neatly distill several weeks of work into just a few days. (I often joke that my magic wand is broken and in the shop getting repaired).
There's work to do, and plenty of it. It needs to be taken seriously, implemented correctly, and practiced over several days, weeks, and sometimes months, to achieve important breakthroughs.
Why is this? It’s pretty simple, actually.
Any behavior that has been practiced and rehearsed for an extended period of time has become habitual, and is strongly ingrained. There are well-worn neural pathways that guide behavior. So, the longer a dog rehearses a specific behavior, the more entrenched it becomes.
This is true for humans too! It takes 21-days of regular practice and implementation for us humans to successfully establish a new habit! Why should dogs be any different?
But here’s the good news! With patience, and daily practice, the great majority of dogs, even dogs that are a little older or more resistant to change, can and DO change!
If your clients go into this with the right mind set, expect that it will take time, and know that they will have some minor setbacks along the way, they and their dog are much more likely to succeed!
When clients understand, from the start, that there will be work involved and that it will take time, effort, and consistency, over weeks or months, to see improvement in their dog's behavior, they're much more likely to stay the course, do the work, realize their training goals, and find success -- for them, and their dog.
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